YOU ARE INSECURE AND LONELY AND THATS NORMAL

I’m writing this for someone. idk who you are, but this one is for you. I always believe that no matter how happy or successful someone may look through the “glossy lenses” of Instagram, they all have insecurities too. No one is 100% happy and content with themselves, why? Because shit happens to everyone. We are all the same at the end of the day. Some might have a bit more than others, but bad things have no bias. Feeling like you are not worth the time of day, or feeling like you will never find that special someone, is normal. That little voice in your head that tells you you are never going to be successful, is normal. We all have it, and the point of this post is to acknowledge that voice-but not let it consume your happiness and confidence. Focusing on the negative for too long will drive you mad. And yes, I’m speaking from experience lol. We have to stop depending on this material world and superficial values to make us content with life. Because I can promise you, it’s not enough. The true things that matter in life are not buying something expensive or receiving an absurd amount of likes. The relationships you make with people, and most importantly, the relationship you have with yourself is what you should be worried about. This advice I’m giving is not easy by no means. I’m still working on my relationship with myself as I write this. But just because I know I have a long way to go doesn’t mean I don’t see the light at the end of the tunnel. I have hope! Genuine happiness can’t be given, it has to be made by you. Start with the little things that make you smile. Patience is a virtue. Smile and remind yourself you won’t be in this place forever. 

Xoxo Dessy ❤️